One of the beautiful parts of living in
America is the rich diversity of cultures.
People from every part of the globe have moved from their home countries to seek new opportunities in the United States or to continue their studies. Others seek refuge here as a haven from their country of origin.
As believers, we have a unique opportunity to build friendships with internationals in America. Many arrive with little or no knowledge about the gospel. Taking the time to befriend those around you will create unique pathways to share the love of Jesus with them and ultimately point them to the gospel.
Consider ten simple ways you can build friendships with internationals in your community:
Volunteer in an ESL (English as a Second Language) program in your local schools. Offer to sit and read with students as they work on their English skills.
Visit a local park and connect with young moms. Many of these young mothers are lonely and in need of a friend. This is a great way to interact with them.
Start a cooking class at your church. Invite internationals to learn how to create common American dishes and ask them to teach you how to make something from their culture.
Start a weekly or bi-weekly lunch club. Invite internationals to join you in trying out different restaurants in your community. This will help them navigate a menu, try new foods, and learn how to tip in America.
Invite internationals to your home for the holidays. They love learning about American traditions (Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, Fourth of July, etc.).
Host a baking day and teach internationals how to make your favorite treats.
Host a bonfire at your home or church and invite
internationals to roast wieners and (even better) marshmallows for s’mores. Cooking food over an
open fire and tasting s’mores will likely be a new experience for them.
Be a conversation partner. Contact your local college or university and ask about helping international students practice English.
Visit local restaurants and befriend the wait staff from different countries. Learn their names and build friendships with them.
Invite international neighbors to enjoy your favorite hobbies with you: hiking, fishing, shopping, book club, photography, sewing, etc. Use these outlets to connect with them as they try something new.
As you read this list, two words should come to your mind immediately: be available. Our willingness to connect with international neighbors might be the key to sharing the gospel and hopefully leading them to salvation.
About the Writer: Kellie and Tyler Penn serve as missionaries to international students at the University of Illinois. Kellie is a proud mother of three incredible teens, Mason, Millie, and Madden. She enjoys photography, home decor, and trying new recipes (and secretly thinks she’s best friends with Joanna Gaines).
